Sometimes control is not about power. Sometimes control is about safety. I’m not arguing that controlling is a good thing… I’m not making excuses for people that have tendencies to control…people…
Surrender is not defeat. It is trust. I’ve been asking myself why surrender feels so difficult for us. Not just surrendering to God. But surrendering our hearts in conflict. Surrendering our need to…
I had an awesome conversation with someone yesterday and it really made me contemplate this question… Do you know who you were before trauma ever affected you? That question has changed everything…
Confusion is one of the fastest ways to lose yourself in a conversation. Whether it’s intentional or subconscious, confusion has a way of pulling you off center. You try to clarify. They…
I think one of the greatest hidden motivations behind human behavior is our desperate attempt to avoid disappointment. And I will also add the fear of disappointing others. Literally disappointment…